Through my journey with Kath, I’ve discovered that lasting marriages aren’t built on grand gestures but on daily, intentional choices. Here are 5 tips tips for a great marriage that have reshaped our relationship: 5 tips for a great marriage 1. Make Prayer Your Daily Foundation Prayer has become the cornerstone of our marriage restoration. When Kath and I first started praying together, it felt awkward and forced. We didn’t know what to say or how to express our hearts. But as we persevered, something beautiful emerged. Prayer became our safe space, where we could be completely vulnerable not just with God, but with each other.Start by setting aside specific times for prayer – perhaps first thing in the morning or right before bed. Turn
If you’re wondering, “Can my marriage be saved?” I am glad you are here. Here are some of my and my wife Kath’s marriage stories that we hope encourage you. That fateful morning in our Columbia River condo remains crystal-clearly etched in my memory. The luxurious 3,500 square foot space, with its panoramic views and elegant furnishings, stood as a testament to our material success – a far cry from our humble beginnings in that cramped Air Force base duplex. After what seemed like a perfect morning together, sharing coffee and casual conversation with Kath, I headed out to manage my thriving car dealership and construction sites. Something inexplicable tugged at my heart, compelling me to return for one last kiss – a simple impulse
The journey to discovering true marital harmony took an unexpected path through adventure activities for married couples on mountain trails and in forest sanctuaries. For 27 years, our marriage weathered the storms of selfishness until a profound spiritual awakening brought us to our knees. Then, we made the transformative decision to center our lives around Jesus Christ, a choice that would reshape every aspect of our relationship for the next 15 years. The Search for Sacred Rest Throughout our spiritual journey, I was drawn to the wisdom of mentors who spoke passionately about their Sabbath practices. Their testimonies of deep spiritual connection through intentional rest resonated deeply, yet our path to discovering our unique form of Sabbath remained elusive until 2024. A Divine Appointment with
Part 2 – Finding Our Sabbath Deuteronomy 8:3 states, “And he humbled you and let you hunger and fed you with manna, which you did not know, nor did your fathers know, that he might make you know that man does not live on bread alone, but man lives by every word that comes from the mouth of the Lord.” This verse encapsulates the essence of spiritual growth in relationships, particularly marriage. My personal journey of spiritual growth began when I met Kath, a “church girl” whose family regularly attended church services. At first, my attraction was largely superficial, based on her appearance and the potential for how she might look in the future, judging by her mother. I saw her church background as a
Proverbs 13:20 states, “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm” (ESV). This profound biblical wisdom can be misinterpreted, especially when it comes to understanding the true value of rest in life. My journey has led me to realize that wisdom isn’t just about hard work and success but also about recognizing the essential role of rest in our lives. Early Misconceptions About Rest Growing up, the worldly perspective of success heavily influenced my concept of wisdom. I looked up to older, seemingly successful individuals who embodied the ideals of hard work and material achievement. My circle of friends shared interests that kept us constantly engaged – sports, horses, girls, and partying. In this whirlwind of activity, the